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Mr_MrsTM

Household Help with Special Needs Experience Job in Sevenoaks

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14 years
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09 Sep 2026
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We are a family in Otford with three children aged 16, 13 and 5. Our 13-year-old is home educated and autistic (level 1). We're looking for someone to support his education, supervise and provide meals and household support on two days per week (Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday).

My Requirements

Private Tutor
Special Needs Experience
Governess
Household Help

We need support for our home educated 13-year-old level 1 autistic son on 2 days per week (flexible choice of Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday), full day.

The role combines tutoring, supervision and household duties:
- Tutor in Key Stage 3 Maths, English and Sciences
- Supervise and support his learning
- Prepare nutritious meals and ensure healthy eating
- Light household tasks to support the family (cooking, tidying, laundry as needed)
- Clean driving licence preferred (may use family car)

We're looking for someone with patience, experience supporting autistic young people, and a calm, structured approach to education.

Must be okay with pets, we have a dog, cats, a bearded dragon and fish.

Mon
Tue
Wed
Thu
Fri
Sat
Sun
Before School
no
no
no
no
no
no
no
Morning
no
yes
yes
yes
no
no
no
Afternoon
no
yes
yes
yes
no
no
no
After School
no
yes
yes
yes
no
no
no
Evening
no
no
no
no
no
no
no
Overnight
no
no
no
no
no
no
no
Required
Not required
Last updated 07/09/2026

Reviews I've Written

Reviews written by Mr_MrsTM. Please note that reviews represent the subjective opinions of other Childcare.co.uk members and not of Childcare.co.uk.

Left 30 minutes into her day with us.

1 stars

Please be aware that Marie left her job with us 30 minutes into her 3rd day with us. She left without saying goodbye or having a conversation about why she left. We were paying her £18 per hour doing cleaning, cooking and ironing. During her phone interview Marie assured us that she would do anything for £18 per hour, she was extremely reliable and her references were exclusive. Regardless of her reasoning behind leaving, to leave without conversation or warning means that we must leave a bad review and discourage future employees from taking this risk. Up until this point we had an excellent relationship with Marie, no arguements, no disputes and we paid via bank transfer. We have huge experience with nannies and cleaners and know what can be done.

  • 1 stars Overall
  • 1 stars Setting
  • 3 stars Cleanliness
  • 3 stars Food
  • 1 stars Communication

by Avatar for Mr_MrsTM Mr_MrsTM about Avatar for Marie Marie (Household Help) on 02/10/2023


Response by Avatar for Marie Marie on 02/10/2023:

Hi
I left, after my third shift as you wanted me too do a deep clean of everywhere in a large house in 4 hours and cook your dinner . You have an old dog in a nappy . You wanted me too bleach the toilet area where he sleeps . I won’t use bleach around animals or children. As anyone else knows because it’s harmful.
I will do general cleaning . However
Cleaning dog urine and faeces off a dilapidated stone floor is beyond me …. I am not a slave I have impeccable refs which you didn’t take up .
You say you’d had trouble keeping nannies /cleaners as your home is dilapidated and a filthy mess .
Please don’t try too ruin my reputation.
So anyone that would like to work for this family beware .
Thankyou for my review .

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