Trinity

My Requirements

My eldest son Lucian has had a complex start to his life, lots of emergency a&e trips and hospital admissions. Unfortunately at 8 months old he had a regression and became life threateningly ill- 10 months later and we are only now seeing the light from this scary journey. Along the way he became non-verbal despite already knowing words. He has only now started to eat solids again after refusal for 10 months. Going from 4 + naps a day due to chronic fatigue, we’re only now getting it down to 1. He is currently under going assessments and speech therapies. Lots of different things that affect the way lucian needs care but this would all be discussed. Right now, it’s not quite complex needs but he just needs a little extra love and attention, especially for his age. Overall he’s happy, loud, and definitely a character. He absolutely LOVES to play, loves music and footballs.

I’m a mum of two boys born just under a year apart: Feb 22 & Feb 23. Lucian who’s the eldest & Ru the youngest. My name is Trinity, I am recently a single mum. I don’t have a family of my own, so it’s just me and the boys. Lucian is currently going through ASD diagnosis and had a verbal regression at the start of 23’ & which he is now non verbal.

Ru is just an amazing little boy. Very content and happy. Dare I say it.. easy!!

Unfortunately because of Lucians medical issues I haven’t really had one day off from being a mum, just an hour or so to myself to rejuvenate! Now being a single mum with little to no support round me it’s becoming increasingly difficult to find time to make friends or prioritise other aspects of my life.

Looking for someone who can be a stable person in my children’s lives, especially Lucian as he struggles socially (with pretty much living in hospital his life). Someone with a passion for caring and has a lot of patience. Someone who understands complex needs and just likes to have a lot of fun. They both LOVE the outdoors: no matter the weather.

There is also possibility of nannying position in the future as I start to prepare my return for work.