Em89

Disheartening Experience of Cultural Bias

I feel compelled to share a deeply unsettling experience I had recently, which I believe speaks volumes about the values we hold dear when it comes to childcare and basic human respect. Initially, when I reached out to discuss potential childcare arrangements, the conversation took an unexpected turn. Despite my clear communication regarding the compensation weeks in advance, the response was dismissive, citing the rates as unacceptable only after I confirmed availability for the specific days and hours needed.

However, what truly disturbed me was the overt prejudice displayed during our exchange. Upon noticing that Russian was listed as one of the languages spoken in our household, the individual expressed reluctance to work with us due to past negative experiences with Russian-speaking families. To clarify, we are not Russian by nationality, but merely possess the ability to speak the language—a fact that should not influence professional decisions or personal judgments.

It was disheartening to hear such a stereotype being used as a basis for decision-making in childcare—a role that necessitates openness, understanding, and an unbiased approach. When I addressed the ethical concerns of such stereotyping and discrimination, asserting that it verged on racism, the response was denial and a subsequent block on their end.

This encounter has been a stark reminder of the challenges that persist in our society regarding cultural sensitivity and acceptance. It underscores the importance of choosing caregivers who not only nurture our children’s physical needs but also foster an environment of inclusivity and respect for all cultures and languages.

Be wary of individuals who allow personal biases to cloud their professional responsibilities and interactions. Our children deserve to learn in an environment free from prejudices, where diversity is celebrated, and cultural knowledge is seen as an asset, not a liability.

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by Sunshine about Em89 on 26/04/2024

Response by Em89 on 26/04/2024:

First of all then why you changed your name Sunshine?! Gunel

Second you are lier on your profile was mentioned you can't pay more than £1200 because you got a scolarship and only one payment you can pay because both of you study.

Third true,I have been told I had a bad experience with Russian speakers family first time and I don't want anymore.

And after this 100% I don't want at all!!!

Friendly, organised and punctual.

From all the messages I received, I chose Em to babysit because her experience, qualifications and references looked good, and she had several 5 star reviews. We weren't disappointed - Em was very quick to respond on email, suggested we set up a Zoom call in advance so she could meet our daughter and then was punctual and friendly when she arrived. She was super friendly, got straight onto the floor to play with our daughter and was very responsive in updating us when we checked in. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her.

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by vjb_ about Em89 on 07/11/2023

Response by Em89 on 07/11/2023:

Thank you so much your lovely words Vanessa. Because With Delilah is so easy,very chatty,friendly girl.
Very kind family I can not enough recommend them.

Friendly & professional

Em was brilliant - we would highly recommend her. She immediately put us at ease and she is very friendly. She babysat for the evening while our 15 month old was in bed. Unfortunately our child woke up a few times and was unsettled, but Em comforted her and got her back to sleep.

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by Chloe about Em89 on 04/09/2022

Response by Em89 on 04/09/2022:

Thank you for your kind words
Very friendly,very kind,correct family
Highly recommend Chloe and James,Sylvie
See you again

Responsible, punctual and friendly!

I would recommend Em. She arrived ten minutes before the job and was warm and friendly. She was firm but fair with my two children and they liked her a lot. I’d definitely use her again.

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by Helen about Em89 on 21/08/2022

Response by Em89 on 21/08/2022:

Dear Helen,

Thank you so much your kind words and very welcome.Happy to help When I am able.
with Your kids were easy going.
They are one of my new best babysitter family.
Highly recommend,
Em